Twilight on the beach and a kiss
Romance of love
"Geez, why did you learn to love and romance everything? Love is natural times! " That's what some people (especially men) say if you know that you are learning about love and romance. Have you ever heard or received a 'reprimand' like the sentence above? Don't worry, you are not alone. I've been there too, too often. I can only smile and thank those who think like that.
Really, if you think about it, why do people learn about all love? I don't think so. Love is just like that Acquaintance with the opposite sex, PDKT, going out, then getting married. Yes, for example in the middle of a broken road, just start over from the beginning. So? It should be, but sadly things don't turn out as expected.
Take a look at the environment around you, is it supposed to be? Why are so many good men who have been sincere and sacrificed for their idol women even rejected when shooting? Why is there so much adultery when it seems their relationship is harmonious and on good terms? Why does moving on seem difficult? Why are there so many love tips given to you by the media but not giving satisfactory results? There are still many more questions about the why and why surrounding love that have not been answered, including the title above.
Even some people still don't know the difference between love and romance. All they know is that love is all about romance. Even though in fact romantic things are only one of the elements that produce love. Romance is a process of interaction that occurs between two people who have a special relationship. In a romantic relationship, there is not only a romantic feeling, but there are often conflicts that arise and an investment in it. All the interactions of this process ultimately produce what is called love. How does that sound complicated? Indeed! Therefore you must study it.
Studying love does not mean that you become rigid and constrained by the many rules and theories about it. Studying love doesn't mean you can't enjoy the beauty and romantic feelings while in it. In fact, by studying love and romance, you will become more mature and smarter in overcoming deadly killer viruses (relationship). You can also avoid pebbles that have the potential to hinder your relationship from finding happiness in it.
For example, you know that if responding to a response or meeting a more attractive opposite sex will potentially lead to an affair that can destroy the relationship between you and your partner, of course you will avoid these things. If you understand why at the time of PDKT excessive investment such as attention, material, or even the time you give only makes women comfortable in their comfort zone, of course you will not do those things.
The proverb says: "Better to prevent than to cure". The same is true if you study love and romance. You will prevent yourself from getting hurt by taking a wrong step in the world of love. Indeed, the world of love is cruel to innocent people who are smart and feel they don't need help. But if you already have the knowledge to know it and put into practice what you already know, I believe the fruit of success must be in it.
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